When you’ve been through something terrible-combat, assault, a car crash, or the sudden loss of someone you love-it doesn’t always end when the event does. For about 1 in 3 people who experience trauma, the mind keeps reliving it. Flashbacks. Nightmares. Jumping at loud noises. Avoiding places, people, even thoughts that remind you of what happened. This isn’t weakness. It’s Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, or PTSD. And it’s treatable.
What PTSD Really Feels Like
PTSD isn’t just being stressed out. It’s a brain that got stuck in alarm mode. The four main signs are: intrusions (like flashbacks or nightmares), avoiding anything tied to the trauma, negative changes in how you think or feel (guilt, numbness, detachment), and being on edge all the time-hypervigilant, easily startled, unable to sleep. These symptoms last longer than a month and mess with your job, relationships, and daily life. The DSM-5-TR (2022) sets the official standard: if you’ve had these symptoms for over 30 days and they’re causing real trouble, you’re likely dealing with PTSD.Trauma Processing: The Core of Healing
Medication can calm the storm, but it doesn’t fix the root. That’s where trauma-focused therapy comes in. Two approaches have the strongest evidence: Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) and Prolonged Exposure (PE). CPT helps you challenge the thoughts that got stuck after the trauma-like “It was my fault” or “The world is completely dangerous.” You work with a therapist to rewrite those beliefs with facts, not fear. PE slowly brings you back to the memories and places you’ve been avoiding, not to hurt you, but to show your brain that those triggers aren’t still dangerous. Studies show CPT leads to remission in 60-70% of people after 12 sessions. That’s better than medication alone. And the gains last. Unlike pills, therapy rewires your brain. You don’t need to keep going forever.Medication: Not a Cure, But a Bridge
The FDA has only approved two drugs specifically for PTSD: sertraline (Zoloft) and paroxetine (Paxil). Both are SSRIs-selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors. They don’t erase the trauma. They help reduce the noise: less anxiety, fewer nightmares, better sleep, more ability to focus. Sertraline works for about 53% of people. Paroxetine? Around 60%. But here’s the catch: only 20-30% of people get complete relief. Most see improvement, not total recovery. Other meds are used off-label because they help too. Venlafaxine (Effexor XR), an SNRI, shows similar results. Prazosin, a blood pressure drug taken at night, cuts trauma-related nightmares by half in veterans. It’s not FDA-approved for PTSD, but VA doctors prescribe it all the time. Atypical antipsychotics like risperidone and quetiapine are sometimes added for severe hyperarousal, but evidence is mixed. They’re not first-line. They’re for when everything else hasn’t worked.Medication vs. Therapy: The Real Comparison
Therapy takes longer-8 to 12 weeks to start seeing real change. Medication can kick in faster: 4 to 6 weeks. That’s why some people start with pills to get stable enough to show up for therapy. But therapy wins in the long run. A 2022 VA/DoD guideline found CPT and PE led to higher remission rates than SSRIs alone. Plus, therapy has no side effects like weight gain, sexual dysfunction, or emotional numbness-common with SSRIs. On Reddit’s r/ptsd community, 42% of users quit SSRIs because of sexual side effects. One person wrote: “I felt like I was just floating through life, not living it.” That’s emotional blunting. A real cost.
Combining Both: The Best of Both Worlds?
Some experts say start with therapy. Others say combine them from day one. The 2021 JAMA Psychiatry study found people on sertraline + PE had a 72% response rate-better than either alone. It makes sense. If you’re so overwhelmed by panic and nightmares that you can’t sit still for therapy, a little help from prazosin or sertraline might get you there. Once you’re stable, therapy can do the heavy lifting. The VA now recommends trying therapy first. If it doesn’t work-or if you’re too unstable to even begin-then add medication. Not the other way around.What Works for One Person Might Fail for Another
There’s no one-size-fits-all. A combat veteran might respond beautifully to paroxetine and CPT. A survivor of childhood abuse might try three SSRIs, venlafaxine, even prazosin-and still feel stuck. The International Society for Traumatic Stress Studies has case records of people who didn’t respond to any medication. That’s treatment-resistant PTSD. It’s rare, but it happens. Genetics might play a role. The 2023 Psychiatric Genomics Consortium found 95 genetic variants linked to how well someone responds to SSRIs. We’re not testing for them yet-but we will be.Cost, Access, and Real-World Barriers
Generic sertraline costs $4 to $10 a month. One therapy session? $100 to $200. That’s why meds are tempting. But therapy’s effects last. Medications? You have to keep taking them. Stop them, and 55% of people relapse within a year. Access is another hurdle. In rural areas, finding a therapist trained in CPT or PE is hard. The VA offers free telehealth consultations for PTSD. Private practices? Not always. And 78% of primary care doctors say they don’t feel trained to manage PTSD meds properly.
What’s Coming Next?
The biggest shift on the horizon? MDMA-assisted psychotherapy. The FDA gave it Breakthrough Therapy status in 2017. Phase III trials in 2023 showed 67% of participants no longer met PTSD criteria 18 weeks after treatment. That’s not improvement. That’s remission. The VA/DoD guidelines will update in 2024 to include it. It’s not a magic bullet-it’s still therapy, just with MDMA helping you stay present with painful memories without getting overwhelmed. Also in the pipeline: brexpiprazole (Rexulti) as an add-on to SSRIs. Early data shows a 35% symptom reduction when added to sertraline.What to Do If You’re Struggling
If you think you have PTSD:- Don’t wait for it to go away. It rarely does.
- Find a therapist trained in CPT or PE. Ask your doctor for referrals or check the National Center for PTSD website.
- If you’re too overwhelmed to start therapy, talk to a provider about short-term medication to help you get there.
- Don’t give up if one med doesn’t work. Try another. Dosing matters-sertraline needs to be at least 150 mg daily for a fair trial.
- Track your symptoms. Use the PTSD Checklist (PCL-5) from the VA. It’s free and helps you see progress.
Final Thought: Healing Isn’t Linear
PTSD doesn’t disappear overnight. Some days, you’ll feel fine. Others, you’ll be back in the trauma. That’s normal. Healing isn’t about erasing the past. It’s about reclaiming your present. Medication can help you breathe again. Therapy helps you understand why you stopped breathing in the first place. Together, they’re powerful. But therapy is where the real change happens. Don’t settle for just managing symptoms. Aim for recovery.Can PTSD be cured without medication?
Yes. Many people recover fully with trauma-focused therapy like CPT or PE alone. Medication isn’t required. Therapy helps rewire how your brain responds to trauma memories, leading to lasting change. About 60-70% of people who complete therapy reach remission without any drugs.
Why are only two medications FDA-approved for PTSD?
The FDA requires strong, consistent evidence from large clinical trials. Sertraline and paroxetine met that bar. Other drugs like venlafaxine or prazosin help, but manufacturers didn’t spend the money to get formal approval for PTSD. That doesn’t mean they’re ineffective-it just means they’re used off-label, which is common in psychiatry.
Do SSRIs make PTSD worse?
They don’t make PTSD worse, but they can make some symptoms feel duller. Some people report emotional blunting-feeling less joy, less sadness, less everything. That’s not the trauma returning; it’s the medication dampening emotions overall. If this happens, talk to your doctor. Dose adjustments or switching meds can help.
How long should I stay on PTSD medication?
Most experts recommend staying on medication for at least 12 months after symptoms improve. Stopping too soon leads to relapse in 55% of cases. If you’re doing therapy and feeling stable, you and your doctor can plan a slow taper. Never stop suddenly-SSRIs can cause withdrawal symptoms like dizziness, nausea, or brain zaps.
Is prazosin safe for long-term use?
Yes. Prazosin is used long-term in veterans for trauma-related nightmares. It’s not addictive and doesn’t cause tolerance. Side effects include dizziness or low blood pressure, especially when starting. Start low (1 mg at bedtime) and increase slowly. It’s one of the safest off-label options for PTSD.
Can I use marijuana or CBD for PTSD?
Some people report short-term relief from anxiety or sleep issues with CBD or marijuana. But research is limited and mixed. The VA doesn’t recommend it due to lack of consistent data and potential for worsening symptoms over time. It’s not a substitute for proven treatments like therapy or FDA-approved meds.
What if therapy doesn’t work for me?
It’s not failure. PTSD is complex. If standard therapies haven’t helped, ask about alternatives: EMDR, somatic experiencing, or MDMA-assisted therapy (when available). Also consider a second opinion from a PTSD specialist. Treatment resistance doesn’t mean no hope-it means you need a different approach.
2 Comments
Declan O Reilly December 2, 2025 AT 16:27
Man, I read this whole thing and just felt seen. I did CPT after my tour and it didn't fix everything, but it made me stop hating myself for surviving. Therapy didn't erase the memories, but it stopped them from running my life.
And yeah, SSRIs made me feel like a zombie on a Sunday afternoon. No joy, no rage, just... flat. Like my emotions got put on mute. I quit after six months. Didn't regret it.
Conor Forde December 3, 2025 AT 09:11
Ohhh here we go again with the ‘therapy is magic’ fairy tale. Let me guess-next you’ll say meditation cures cancer? I’ve seen guys on sertraline who could finally hold a job, sleep through the night, and not scream at their kids. You think that’s not worth it? You’re romanticizing suffering.
And don’t get me started on MDMA. ‘Oh it’s just therapy with a party drug!’ Yeah, and LSD was ‘just a hallucinogen’ until people started having psychotic breaks. Progress isn’t always pretty, but it’s real.